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A community engagement initiative of Vandalia CUSD 203.

Fall | 2026

A Big Deal

"I use up all my patience at school."

Emily Ledbetter said hello. The child said hello back. That's it. No test score, no award, no ceremony, just one word returned by a child who seldom greets anyone. Emily knew exactly what had happened. "It's a big deal," she said.


In Emily's life-skills classroom at Vandalia, victories come in all sizes. A student recognizes a tenth letter after knowing nine. A child uses a fork for the first time. Someone manages to pull up his own pants after using the bathroom. And every so often, a child who rarely speaks says hello. "We're gonna celebrate it," Emily said, and she means all of it, the tiny wins right alongside the bigger ones.


She teaches kindergarten through third grade, and the range of needs in her room varies enormously from one child to the next. Some communicate through AAC devices or core boards. Some need help eating or using the bathroom. She's taught kids in wheelchairs and kids still learning to walk the halls independently. Others speak just fine but struggle badly with transitions, moving from lunch to recess, from the playground back inside. Layer academics on top of all that, with every student somewhere different, and Emily can't simply teach to where a curriculum says a child should be. "You have to meet the kids where they're at," she said. That means figuring out each child's world first: what motivates them, candy, a favorite toy, a high five, a hug, and what's actually standing between them and communicating, learning, or moving toward independence. Then she removes it, or tries something else if the first idea doesn't work. One student loved fiddling with markers, so much that ink kept ending up everywhere. Emily's solution was simple: pull the ink cartridge out, hand the empty shell back, problem solved. "You just have to remove those things that I think in our minds are, like, the normal standard of everything," she said.


That idea reaches well past markers. Emily believes people badly underestimate what kids with significant disabilities can actually do. "I think a lot of the time our kids are written off," she said, dismissed as unlikely to amount to much. She's watched the opposite happen instead, given the right environment, the right accommodations, patience, and enough time. A child starts talking. Another learns to request a specific color. Someone asks for a snack on their own for the first time. Progress that's nearly invisible day to day becomes unmistakable stretched across years; her very first Vandalia student, a kindergartner when Emily arrived, is finishing third grade with her this year, and the growth between those two points has been enormous.


Emily understands the work personally, not just professionally. Her brother, Tyler, has autism along with emotional and behavioral disabilities, and growing up beside him taught her early how differently someone can experience the same world everyone else takes for granted. His own schooling moved through several places before landing at Cornerstone, a behavior school in Nokomis. Emily also helped a cousin with a speech impediment, and as a junior high student, babysat a girl from her church with cerebral palsy and severe seizures. "I just wanted to help kids like him," she said, and the path from there to a teaching degree felt almost inevitable.


Emily graduated from Vandalia in 2016, earned her associate's degree at Kaskaskia College, then finished at Eastern Illinois University, which she credits with genuinely preparing her for the range of classrooms she'd eventually face. Her first two years teaching were spent at Brownstown, in something closer to a jack-of-all-trades special ed role: resource support, behavior work, push-in classroom help. She hadn't planned on coming back to Vandalia at all; teaching in the district where she'd once been a student struck her as strange, an odd inversion of roles. Then a life-skills position opened, exactly the kind of classroom she'd always wanted, and Emily came home anyway. These days one of her own former teachers, Mrs. Krueger, her high school English teacher and later assistant principal, is her boss. "I love giving back to a school that gave so much to me," she said.


Four years in, Emily is far more confident than she was when she arrived. Some days call for patience above everything else. Other days call for turning kids into airplanes and frogs in the hallway, whatever gets them moving and engaged. A self-described theater geek, with a background in acting and chorus, Emily treats the classroom a little like improv: no script, no absolutes, just whatever the moment actually needs. "Whatever works," she said. And some days, nothing does. Some days just aren't a child's day, and Emily's learned to accept that too, rather than force it. "We come back, and we try again tomorrow." It costs her something real. She jokes to her husband that she runs out of patience entirely by the time she gets home. "I use up all my patience at school," she tells him, "I'm sorry, honey."


None of these accomplishments will ever show up on a scoreboard or an honor roll. A fork. A letter. A pair of pants. A word. Each one represents a child claiming a little more independence in a world that Emily says can struggle to make room for them. So when a child who seldom says hello finally looks up at Emily Ledbetter and says it back, she isn't measuring that moment against anyone else's yardstick. She's measuring it against where that particular child started. And she celebrates it exactly like she means it.


It's a big deal. Because it is.

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