Fall | 2026
Her Own Ideas
"I want to be someone's role model so that they can see they can still do anything if they're determined to do it."

Amelia is 11 years old, gets straight A's, prefers math to language arts, and has already decided that someday she might like to cut open somebody's chest. For all the right reasons. "I want to be a heart surgeon, or like any type of surgeon," she told me. "I want to learn about the body, and I want to be someone's role model so that they can see they can still do anything if they're determined to do it."
Determination comes up a lot with Amelia. She'll need some next year when she hopes to join a volleyball team for the first time, something she readily admits she isn't particularly good at yet. "But I'm gonna practice." She'll need it in English language arts too, which she calls a struggle despite earning an A in it. And she figures she'll need plenty of it if that heart-surgeon idea sticks. "I'm kind of nervous if I can do it or not," she admitted, "but I know that I will if I'm determined enough."
That particular aspiration caught my attention. I told Amelia that my own heart stopped in February, and that a doctor opened an artery through my wrist and put in a stent that saved my life, sending me home to my own kids. Someday, I suggested, the father on that table might be hers to send home. "Yeah," she said quietly. "It's a big deal."
There is something wonderful about an 11-year-old contemplating such enormous possibilities while still working through the more immediate questions of sixth grade, like the Socratic seminar on hunters and gatherers her class just started in Ms. Boylan's room, a format Amelia didn't realize traces all the way back to Socrates himself, the idea that students have as much to teach each other as any teacher does.
Amelia comes by big dreams naturally. She was born in the Philippines, and her mother, raised there too, is Amelia's "big inspiration," not because life has always been easy for her, but precisely because it hasn't. "She makes decisions that are hard for her, but she still does it if it's right," Amelia said. "And she also does it for us so that we can live a better life." Her mother dreamed of coming to America. "She finally succeeded," Amelia said. Today, the woman who once taught herself English from textbooks, with no technology and no help from parents who didn't speak it either, teaches 9th-12th-grade English right here in Española and works with students with special needs.
That story makes Amelia's own relationship with language especially interesting. She speaks English and Bisaya, a language from the Philippines distinct from the more commonly known Tagalog, and admits balancing the two has gotten harder as English takes up more of her life. Asked how she feels about carrying it anyway, her answer came immediately. "I'm proud of it."
She's proud of her home, too. Asked what makes this part of New Mexico special, Amelia didn't hesitate: Route 66, beautiful landscapes, forests that feel, in her word, "alive." She's proud of her school as well, praising teachers who are "kind and loving" and work hard to help students learn things they didn't know before. Asked what makes it such a good place, she landed on a phrase that could just as easily describe her own family: a school "built with determination."
She's not under the illusion that determination means getting everything right. Asked what she'd tell her kindergarten self, still living in the Philippines, she said she'd tell that little girl to stop expecting everything to go her way, and to treat people better; she remembers being jealous of a friend and stirring up drama she can see clearly now. Even drawing taught her something similar. As a little girl, Amelia used to trace her older sister's pictures, until an argument over whose work belonged to whom pushed her to study them instead, learning proportion and perspective on her own. It left her with a lesson bigger than drawing. "I shouldn't copy what others' paths," she said. "And to make my own ideas."
That might be the most important thing Amelia has figured out so far. Her mother's path started with a little girl in the Philippines who dared to dream of America, and required self-taught English and enough courage to build a life thousands of miles from home. Amelia doesn't need to copy that path. Her mother's courage bought her something better: the freedom to draw her own. Maybe hers runs through a volleyball court next year. Maybe through years of science classes and medical school, into an operating room where someone else's family gets to keep going because Amelia was there. Or maybe it leads somewhere nobody's imagined yet.
She's only 11. For now, she has something better than a finished picture of her future: a blank page, a mother's example, and, increasingly, ideas of her very own.

